Safety Tips

Your safety is our top priority. Follow these essential guidelines to ensure a secure and enjoyable online dating experience at any age.

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Profile Safety

  • Use recent, genuine photos of yourself
  • Don't include personal information like your address or phone number
  • Avoid showing identifiable locations in your photos
  • Be honest about your age, interests, and intentions
  • Don't mention your financial status or assets
  • Keep your last name private initially
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Communication Safety

  • Keep conversations on the platform initially
  • Never share personal financial information
  • Don't give out your home address or work location
  • Be cautious of people asking for money or gifts
  • Trust your instincts if something feels wrong
  • Report suspicious or inappropriate behavior
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Meeting in Person

  • Always meet in public places for first dates
  • Drive yourself or arrange your own transportation
  • Tell a friend or family member about your plans
  • Consider a video call before meeting in person
  • Meet during daytime hours when possible
  • Keep your phone charged and accessible
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Financial Protection

  • Never send money to someone you haven't met
  • Don't share banking or credit card information
  • Be wary of sob stories or emergency requests for money
  • Avoid anyone asking for financial assistance
  • Don't provide Social Security or other ID numbers
  • Keep your financial information completely private

🚨 Red Flags - Be Extra Cautious If Someone:

  • Asks for money, gifts, or financial assistance
  • Claims to be traveling, military overseas, or unable to meet
  • Professes love very quickly or uses overly romantic language
  • Has very few photos or photos that seem too professional
  • Avoids talking on the phone or video chatting
  • Asks for personal information like your address or financial details
  • Has inconsistent stories about their life or background
  • Pressures you to leave the dating platform quickly
  • Makes excuses every time you try to meet in person
  • Has poor grammar or language that doesn't match their claimed background

In Case of Emergency

If you feel unsafe or threatened at any time, contact emergency services immediately:

911

Trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, remove yourself from the situation immediately.