Safety Tips
Your safety is our top priority. Follow these essential guidelines to ensure a secure and enjoyable online dating experience at any age.
Profile Safety
- Use recent, genuine photos of yourself
- Don't include personal information like your address or phone number
- Avoid showing identifiable locations in your photos
- Be honest about your age, interests, and intentions
- Don't mention your financial status or assets
- Keep your last name private initially
Communication Safety
- Keep conversations on the platform initially
- Never share personal financial information
- Don't give out your home address or work location
- Be cautious of people asking for money or gifts
- Trust your instincts if something feels wrong
- Report suspicious or inappropriate behavior
Meeting in Person
- Always meet in public places for first dates
- Drive yourself or arrange your own transportation
- Tell a friend or family member about your plans
- Consider a video call before meeting in person
- Meet during daytime hours when possible
- Keep your phone charged and accessible
Financial Protection
- Never send money to someone you haven't met
- Don't share banking or credit card information
- Be wary of sob stories or emergency requests for money
- Avoid anyone asking for financial assistance
- Don't provide Social Security or other ID numbers
- Keep your financial information completely private
🚨 Red Flags - Be Extra Cautious If Someone:
- Asks for money, gifts, or financial assistance
- Claims to be traveling, military overseas, or unable to meet
- Professes love very quickly or uses overly romantic language
- Has very few photos or photos that seem too professional
- Avoids talking on the phone or video chatting
- Asks for personal information like your address or financial details
- Has inconsistent stories about their life or background
- Pressures you to leave the dating platform quickly
- Makes excuses every time you try to meet in person
- Has poor grammar or language that doesn't match their claimed background
In Case of Emergency
If you feel unsafe or threatened at any time, contact emergency services immediately:
Trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, remove yourself from the situation immediately.